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Learn the Science and Art of Kissing by Dr Ava Cadell (Sexpert) »

Kissing is one of the most intimate acts of sex (yes, its sex when you exchange bodily fluids and that includes kissing) which is why I call it “facial intercourse,” a phrase I often like to use in my seminars.

What you may not know about kissing is that there is now scientific evidence that long, wet, deep, passionate kissing can stimulate the same type of brain activity as high risk sports activities such as bungee jumping. The feelings of anticipation and excitement from both activities cause the brain to release feel good endorphins and neurotransmitters (chemicals) like Dopamine, whose targeted actions includes voluntary movement and emotional arousal and Noradrenaline for wakefulness and physical arousal.

Drugs like Speed and Amphetamines that suppress appetite and enhance performance create similar feelings to the natural endorphins your body releases during passionate kissing and sports. Unlike when you’re rock climbing, speed skiing, or parachuting, when you kiss someone you have incredible chemistry with, your brain sends messages to your body that creates physical changes and sensations resulting in arousal; and if you move from kissing to caressing, oral sex, intercourse, and orgasm, your body will go through five stages of a sexual response cycle.

Masters and Johnson described the sexual response cycle as having four stages in the 1960’s when they studied over 10,000 response cycles: Excitement, Plateau, Orgasm and Resolution. I personally believe there are actually five cycles, especially for women, the first being foreplay.

Cycle #1 – Foreplay

Most people I know like to be prepared for sex whether it’s with a kiss, caress, or hearing about what’s to come (excuse the pun). Foreplay creates sexual anticipation and releases feel-good endorphins and it gets the blood flowing towards the genitals.

Cycle #2 – Excitement

One of the major physical responses to excitement is known as Vasocongestion, which is when blood flow increases to the genital tissues, breasts, and nipples. A woman’s breasts swell and her nipples become erect, her vagina becomes lubricated, and her clitoris can grow up to three times its normal size. His increased blood flow to the genitals enables the penis to harden and stay erect. Blood pressure rises, heartbeat and breathing quicken, and the body becomes more sensitive to touch.

Cycle #3 – Plateau

Body temperature continues to rise and changes the color of her inner labia to an intense rosy red. Her uterus pulls upward into the abdomen, broadening the vaginal space allowing the penis to fit. The head of his penis becomes engorged with blood and swells. At the urethral opening, some men will secrete pre-ejaculatory fluid which contains semen.

Cycle #4 – Orgasm

Breathing, blood pressure, and heart rate increases as muscle tension is building to a peak. The vagina contracts at 0.8 second intervals so if you’ve ever wanted to know if a woman has reached an orgasm, just watch her vagina contract involuntarily. The testicles rise up close to his penis while his prostate gland is filled with fluid. When his automatic pelvic muscular contractions begin, it’s the point of no return…orgasm and ejaculation.

Cycle #5 – Resolution

This is when the body goes back to its normal pre-arousal state. Swelling in the genitals and other areas decrease. Muscles relax and organs and tissues resume their original positions. Heart beat and breathing slows down and some men feel so relaxed that they just want to go to sleep while women want to cuddle…but that’s another story!

For a woman, to empower her sexually and for a man to become multi-orgasmic, play The Tantric Game for Lovers and experience new sexual heights of pleasures.

Would you like to learn more about the Science and the Art of Kissing? Would you like to be certified in kissing? Take a look at this preview of my Kissing Class —-

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This Course Is For You If:

* You want to Learn the Art of Tantric Kissing

* You want to Discover What Can and Should be Kissed

* You want to Become Skilled at Kissing Positions

* You want to Know the Secret to Orgasmic Kissing

Welcome to Loveology University’s Kissing Certification Course. Inside you will learn everything you ever wanted to know about the most intimate act of kissing. There’s a lot more to kissing than two lips meeting and by the end of this course, you’ll be an expert on the history of kissing, the latest scientific research, dozens of sexy kissing tips and techniques, games, positions, places to kiss and you’ll discover what your kissing style says about you. Now pucker up for the ultimate kissing experience.

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Dr. Ava’s 10 Powerful Principles For A Lasting Relationship »

Dr. Ava’s 10 Powerful Principles For A Lasting Relationship

1. Communication
Communicate your needs positively & politely.

2. Courage
Forgive mistakes; have the courage to say “I’m sorry” first.
3. Contentment
Share your contentment and gratitude for what you have together.

4. Consideration
Always be kind and considerate of your partner’s feelings.

5. Collaboration

Collaborate together to form a stronger bond and create lasting memories.

6. Curiosity
Show curiosity in your partner’s daily life, goals, and dreams.

7. Compliments

Compliments are the bedrock of romance so give them daily.

8. Commitment
Build trust by reviewing and renewing your commitment together

9. Contribution

Find as many ways as you can to contribute to each other’s lives.

10. Celebration
Celebrate your love and life by laughing every day.

Conceive it; believe it and you will achieve it!

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Loveology Practicing the Science of Love with Dr Ava Cadell »

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Loveology Practicing the Science of Love

By Lynne Friedman

After talking with sex expert Ava Cadell, I felt like I needed a cigarette (and I don’t even smoke). With doctorates in human behavior and human sexuality. Cadell is candid about the details of her practice. She is a “loveologist”- a term she coined.

“Loveology is the science of love,” Cadell said in her characteristically soft voice during an interview at her Malibu ocean-view home. “Under the umbrella of loveology, my practice can incorporate romance, intimacy, sex, erotica and anything else that works.”

And it has worked. Cadell has helped thousands of people improve their relationships. Her clientele includes celebrities, power couples and singles in Malibu and around the world-people who need advice, therapy and, well… “coaching.”

Cadell views “love coaching” as an evolution of life coaching.

“People are looking for guidance,” she said. “There are coaches for nutrition, fitness and finance. So, why not love?”

Cadell conducts therapy sessions in her art-deco-style Hollywood office as well as over the phone and the internet, but she does not believe in long-term therapy.

“Generally, the maximum time I like to see people is six weeks,” Cadell said. “Intimacy problems almost always stem from something else and I like to get right to the core of the problem.”

Getting to the core does not always start out with the “hardcore.” Cadell begins with many of her couples’ treatments by giving her clients a “Mutual Love Agreement” to fill out. The contract requires people to spell out their boundaries on everything including the social, spiritual, sexual and financial elements of a relationship.

“The purpose is to create a love contract under your own terms and then make each party accountable,” she said.

“Accountability” sounds a bit dry, but it gets sexier. Cadell moves into the physical realm with what she calls “lovework,” a six-week homework program that she individually tailors to each client. The exercises often involve tantric techniques including breathing, movement, sound and muscle lock, and focusing on the journey to a healthy, loving relationship.

One Malibu couple’s journey in the opposite direction changed when they started seeing Cadell.

“My husband and I had seen three marriage counselors and were on the verge of divorce,” said Lauren, an artist in her early fifties. “It just wasn’t working.”

Raising three children and paiting kept Lauren up late at night. Her husband’s career and his obsession with golf got him to bed early most nights, in anticipation of an early-morning tee time. Years of divergent schedules and disagreements on parenting and other issues has taken a toll on the couple’s ability to interact romantically.

“Even though we were together for twenty-five years, we were two separate people on different journeys,” Lauren said. “It would have been so easy to throw in the towel.”

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To read the remainder of the article to see how Dr Ava helped this couple and others, visit http://www.loveologyuniversity.com/DrAvaPages/MalibuTimes.html

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Dr Ava Discusses Love and Intimacy on Braveheart TV - 3 Part Interview »

Learn a bit more about Loveology, sex, love and relationships with Dr Ava Cadell, founder of Loveology University in a 3 part interview with Ellie Drake of Braveheart Women TV.

Visit Loveology University and learn much more about Dr Ava, Loveology University, love, sex, intimacy and much more….. www.cli.gs/luhome

Braveheart Women Interview – Part 1

http://worldsbestlover.blogspot.com/2009/06/dr-ava-cadell-talks-love-intimacy-on.html

Braveheart Women Interview – Part 2

http://worldsbestlover.blogspot.com/2009/06/dr-ava-talks-love-intimacy-on.html

Braveheart Women Interview – Part 3

http://worldsbestlover.blogspot.com/2009/06/dr-ava-talks-love-intimacy-on_07.html